Hockey Confidence

How to Respond after Being Benched

Focus on Self-Improvement Have you ever been benched for a period of time? How did it make you feel? Angry? Frustrated? Helpless? Being benched happens for many reasons: arriving late for a game, missing practice, being disrespectful, making mistakes on the ice or playing poorly. You may view this slight as being unfair: “I

Cope With Reduced Playing

Complaining About Playing Time Hurts the Team

Hope to Cope With Reduced Playing Time Do you get angry when you are not getting enough ice time? Are you bothered when you get pulled from a game during power plays? Do you feel slighted when a teammate plays ahead of you, especially when you feel you’re a better player? Complaining about playing

Learning from a Tough Loss in Hockey

Learning from a Tough Loss in Hockey

Moving on From Past Losses Coping with a tough loss, getting knocked out of a tournament, or missing the playoffs can sting for some hockey players. Many players dwell on what went wrong or mentally replay the game keeping the memory alive. Think of a personal example when you suffered a loss that ended